Karmic
relations and the Moon’s Nodes
Originally Published on 20th January, 2014. I Author: Smiljana Gavrančić
The role of the Moon’s Nodes can be
very significant in synastry, particularly when it comes to “strong karmic
relations”… When the Nodes of one person are found in conjunction with the
personal planets, horoscope’s angles (or their rulers) of another person, than
we can rightly suspect that this is a karmic relation, especially if the
conjunction of one person’s South Node is with a personal planet of another
person… The South Node often brings the energy down of that planet to a lower
octave, thus it may feel somehow enchained and without possibility for growth.
The nature of the South Node in synastry is to slow the other person down and
to somehow “return it to the past”…
Venus in the chart of Rade
Šerbedžija
The famous Croatian actor (of
Serbian descent), a poet and musician, Rade Šerbedžija has Ascendant in Libra,
while the ruler of his Ascendant (Venus) went to 12th house (the
house of past life), therefore, this actor is also in this life somehow “tied”
to his past life.
Of course, we may suspect that this
is some sort of a past-life love story, where it took a lot of faith and hope
(Venus in Virgo is in the fall). As the Venus carries along Jupiter and Neptune
from Libra, the rulers of 7th (relations) from the 12th,
but also Chiron (wound, pain) from Libra, this only additionally confirms its
connectedness to some “painful” love from his past life, which gets “revived”
in this life by the relations with his second wife, a well-known movie director
Lenka Udovički, as it is precisely her having her South Node on Rade’s Venus!
If we look at the depositor of Rade’s Venus, than we can see that it is
retrograde (problems…). Mercury going towards Pluto (transformation, danger…),
so the memory of it was rather painful… However, as all this is in 11th
house (the house with a potential to set ourselves free, analogue to the 11th
sign, Aquarius), than it is precisely that some dangerous life circumstances take
him, through transformation, towards setting himself free. He was brave enough
to “melt” with dangers, he “dived in”… (retrograde Mercury – his final
depositor, going towards Pluto).
However, as his life with Lenka,
even though they have been together for already 24 years, he has faced some
very painful moments, but it is precisely that those painful moments have
transformed him and bring them even closer, as they say themselves… Only after
they started living together, the war in the area of the former SFRY started,
this was in the early nineties of the past century, they had to run away… He
was shot at in one café in Belgrade, however, luckily, the outcome was not
fatal… He was against the war and he was loud in expressing it, and, even
today, he is quite well known as having nostalgia for the past Yugoslavia… Soon
after that, they made their home in Slovenia. “These were very difficult
times…”, says Lenka…. Their first child, their daughter Nina, they used to
bathe in the sink… Later, they moved to London and, after that, to the United
States, precisely, to Los Angeles, where they developed their artistic careers,
starting from scratch… The family expanded, they got two more daughters, Milica
Alma and Vanja. In the fifth decade of his life, Rade was working on building
of his career in a new language, in a new setting…
In the early 1990s, Rade (at the
time when he met Lenka) was 44, he had already had one marriage, two children,
while the young Lenka was really young, being only 20 and having just completed
Movie and Directing Academy. They met in the north of Vojvodina, in Subotica,
in a movie festival… Šerbedžija, in this way, got an opportunity for love when
he laid his eyes on the young director of Latino-American roots and with dark
curls, who won his heart at first sight… “Our first encounter happened at the
Subotica Theater during football championship. Although I was focused on the
game I was watching, I also managed to notice Lenka. She was standing at the
door and she was sort of asking something my friends. I exchanged few words
with her, so I did not even notice that this actually turned out to be quite a
long conversation. When Lenka stepped out, my friend Inge Appelt said: “This
little girl is the one you will marry…”
Lenka Udovički
Two decades younger Lenka Udovički
had already known pretty well who Rade was, as he had been a part of her
childhood through the roles she used to watch on TV.
At the time she was in the Venus
period (from 14 to 22), which in her chart is in Capricorn and in conjunction
with the Sun (an actor, but also an essential signifier for a man, husband, in
female horoscope), which made a separating (past) square both with the Moon
(wife, family) in Libra as well as with Uranus (divorce, setting free) in the
same sign – so, this in Lenka’s chart was precisely the picture of Rae, an
older, mature man, who has already had a family, wife, as well as a divorce…
Rade’s first marriage was with a
well known dance professor and choreographer from Zagreb, Ivanka Cerovac, with
whom he had a son, Danilo, and a daughter, Lucija, and whom he divorced in
1987.
“I did not plan to fall in love, I
planned to have a career, but he won me over with his simplicity, honesty and
boyish spirit that I recognized in him…” – said Lenka.
Ten days after that, they started
living together, Rade moved in with Lenka, into her small, student’s apartment,
in an attic. He moved in with her bringing only one suitcase. They married next
year, in 1991… The depositor of Lenka’s Venus is precisely Saturn, almost at
the degree of the Moon’s exaltation (3° Taurus), so no wonder that she got a
huge family with Rade, having three daughters (Taurus is a female sign, the
place of Venus’s seat and Moon’s exaltation, the two most significant female
principles)…
Directive South Node and Ascendant
The following supports the idea that
the role of the nodes is rather significant in this story. In the year when she
met Rade, Lenka’s directive axis of the nodes was precisely over his natal 1/7
axis (relationship), more precisely, the directive South Node (as everything in
the directions moves by 1° for 1 year) of Lenka on the day of her solar return,
1st January 1990, being at 4° Libra 26’, at the very Rade’s
Ascendant, which clearly points out that she somehow “invites” him that year to
a karmic love, love from the past…
On the other side, in the secondary
progressions she had her secondary Venus at 29° Capricorn 59’, at her natal
Mercury (carrying along her South Node – the past, which is on Rade’s natal
Venus), which also clearly points out some end, some karmic love, love from
before (the symbolism of 29°), however, also, to another beginning, which will
soon follow (when the Venus comes to 0° Aquarius)…
The touch between the Sun and Venus
During the life, when it happens
that the Sun in progressions (the natural representative of the series 5 –
love) moves over the natal Venus (the natural representative of the series 7 –
relations), this can usually be an “alarm” to suspect that some love story is
in the air. Namely, it is precisely during 1990 (the progressions done on the
date of his solar return), when Lenka enters Rade’s life, that his Sun in the
progressions got to 16° Virgo 05’, only after having completed transit over his
natal Venus (the ruler of Ascendant in the 12th) at 15° Virgo 31’,
by which the story with Lenka, his past life love, is somehow “opened up”…
That 15° Virgo is really a
significant place in the chart of this person is also confirmed by the
horoscope of his past life (Dwadasamsa chart), where we find the Sun precisely
(the natural representative of the series 5 – love) at this degree, precisely
at 14° Virgo 39’, which is within the permitted orb of up to 30’.
On the other side, the very Lenka in
her chart has the conjunction of Venus and the Sun and, if we do secondary
progressions for 1st January 1991 (the date of her solar return in
the year when she married Rade), then we find an exact conjunction of the
secondary Sun and secondary Venus at 1° Aquarius, which surely points out
towards a love story that will get opened up by this solar return.
“Return to the past” during this
life is an opportunity to fix circumstances from before, meaning, to improve
the circumstances ahead of us, as the past creates the present, and the present
creates the future… Finally, nether the past nor the present nor the future
exist; time as a category – does not exist… Everything has already happened… If
someone enters your life to put their South Node onto your Venus, try to “dive
deep” into yourself and to make the “difficult” circumstances as light as
possible…